Wednesday, May 20, 2015

[Nude] Relationship, Freak out!

Relationship is something people always went thru when they were a teenager and relationships get serious when they are adult (let say 20ish).

Personally I have never been in a relationship and I think I have never been in love. Even if I have a crush on someone, I'll brush it off easily. To some people it's tragic. But for some, I know you get me.

Lately since I'm in my early 20s, my friends and colleagues are always constantly talk about relationship and marriage. They shared some of their stories and problems in relationship. From what I get from this stories is that most of the relationship is lack of honesty and trust. Not trying to find their flaws, maybe because I keep comparing with my sort of "ideal" relationship. 

Even if I called it "ideal", I genuinely think that honesty play an important role in a relationship. Some of my friends are scared to tell their significant other about how they really feel and what they do. They are so scared that their significant other would leave them if they tell the truth.

Well, honey. If your partner cannot accept/tolerate your flaws, is it worth the relationship and lies? Even if your partner get mad at you for telling the truth, sulking for days, it is what you have to deal with, both partner.One have to learn to accept and one maybe try to change. With the truth you will learn more about each other, hence increase your trust for each other. An open conversation is the key!

Heyyy, what do I know, right?

Okay, but still there is nothing to be freak out - people keep secrets all the time. 
NO! with all the stories and people I known who are in relationship, I beg to differ. Maybe because I can't live with lies, especially with people I love.



Tuesday, May 5, 2015

Sepetang

Minggu di hari yang cuaca kian panas membuat aku merindui Malaysia lebih dari sepatutnya. Mengingatkan aku akan keluarga yang tika bersama kami berada di pagar rumah sambil meminum teh yang dibuat ibu melayani angin petang. Teringat segala makanan petang seperti keropok leko, keropok ikan, sausage, fried fries, pisang goreng dll. (Malaysian mana tidak rindukan makanannya)

Petang yang riuh dengan gelak tawa, kisah hidup, caci maki dan lawak senda. Damn, I really miss it. I meant them..

Maka dengan cuaca yang indah begini, aku keluar menikmati keindahan berhampiran rumah aku. Kebetulan rumah yang aku tinggal berdekatan dengan kawasan pertanian. Melihat hijauan buat diri terasa tenang ditambah dengan kuningan yang menceriakan. 



Untuk pengetahuan anda, pokok kuning ini adalah Rape Plant. (Don't think dirty, ayy) Pokok inilah yang digunakan untuk membuat minyak masak disini. Minyak masak paling murah. Kedua murah adalah minyak bunga Matahari. Dari apa yang aku baca, pokok ini banyak kegunaannya. Anda boleh google untuk tahu lebih lanjut. 

Masa aku berjalan petang, mesti ada orang tua yang juga sedang berjalan ambil angin petang. Melihat mereka buat aku sedikit gembira. I wish to be old like them, enjoying every little time I have. 



Berhampiran kawasan ladang Rape Plant ini, ada sebuah ladang yang menanam pokok bunga seperti Narcissus dan Tulip. Anda boleh petik segar. Yang menariknya tiada siapa yang jaga kebun tersebut, hanya sebuah papan dan peti wang. Di letaknya pisau untuk memetik bunga. 

Papan tersebut tulis:
"Nur bezahlte Blumen bringen Freu(n)de."
Bermaksud:
Hanya bunga yang dibayar memberi kebahagiaan/(kawan).

Tapi aku yakin semua yang memetik, pasti membayarnya. Aku suka sistem ini. Saling percaya mempercayai.






P/s: Aku tulis post ni guna Phone. Laptop buat hal.